Up next, the 'Checklist for Life' book for this insight, is on the guidance that we give – or don't give – our children. And as you ponder what that means to you, consider these words . . .
Some parents think they are doing the right thing when they let their kids run wild in their early days, because they don't want to be thought of as being mean or overly strict. They fear breaking their spirit or alienating their kids. Sadly, for those parents, they find they cannot control their kids (and yes, others view those kids as brats). Not that things can be done to change things for the better – but know this, it is a lot harder to make things better when you're starting in an ugly hole. | So please, consider the following. Children need consistent direction and occasionally some effective correction when they have done wrong, and or have violated parental rules. |
Kids need to know they are loved by their parents and also know they will hold them accountable. Proverbs 22:6 encourages all parents to “train up a child in the way they should go, and when they are old, they will not depart from it."
And yes, to train = to create a desire for . . .
As to what that “for . . .” equals, hopefully it is for the good things in life (doing what is right, what is compassionate and what is honorable). So please, think of the guidance that you have or have not been giving your kids, and pursue now as best you can, what you believe is in their best interest.
And yes, to train = to create a desire for . . .
As to what that “for . . .” equals, hopefully it is for the good things in life (doing what is right, what is compassionate and what is honorable). So please, think of the guidance that you have or have not been giving your kids, and pursue now as best you can, what you believe is in their best interest.
And also think of the guidance that you have or have not been giving your kids, and pursue now as best you can, what you believe is in their best interest. Which brings us to the 'Iron sharpens iron' portion of this C4L #3. Therefore, consider the following: I will (yes / no): Realize that children need direction and guidance, even if they don't ask for it or don't want it. __ Pray for my children every day. __ Avoid letting my desire to be the 'cool dad' keep me from applying loving but firm correction when it's needed. (and/or)_______________________ |
Things to do: _ During the next few weeks, come up with and begin implementing new and creative ways to have meaningful times with my kids, including ways to teach them important life principles.
_ Think about and if possible, to implement a new tradition between yourself and your kids (like a special time or event with Dad to mark a milestone).
Anything else to jot down?
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And don't forget: “Behold, children are a gift of the Lord;
the fruit of the womb is a reward.“ Psalm 127:3
And please note: all of the above is based on the "A Checklist For Life for Men" book. I thank you for considering this info shared.
_ Think about and if possible, to implement a new tradition between yourself and your kids (like a special time or event with Dad to mark a milestone).
Anything else to jot down?
__________________________________________
And don't forget: “Behold, children are a gift of the Lord;
the fruit of the womb is a reward.“ Psalm 127:3
And please note: all of the above is based on the "A Checklist For Life for Men" book. I thank you for considering this info shared.