Ok, three weeks ago we shared 90 "things you should know" for those who are becoming new Dads. Two weeks back we shared some Help for those who may need a path forward. Last week we addressed the environment that kids live in and this week we build on the theme of ongoing learning. As you can see by the words shared to the right, we never stop learning. It is not our age that prevents learning, it is our mindset. So - how is yours? Now if you responded. . . "how is yours what?", then you may need more help than what you think you do. That's ok and that's why our Men's Fraternity team is here. We're pursuing topics that help men to grow, to improve, to learn and when possible, to help others. So what is next? Know this. The things we share in our weekly D2B blogs are to be viewed as thought joggers, reminders and in some cases... some "please pursue". If the following doesn't help, scroll down to see our closing words for this week. | The following is from an email I received... I've learned that I like my teacher because she cries when we sing "Silent Night". Age 5 I've learned that our dog doesn't want to eat my broccoli either. Age 7 I've learned that when I wave to people in the country, they stop what they are doing and wave back. Age 9 I've learned that just when I get my room the way I like it, Mom makes me clean it up again. Age 12 I've learned that if you want to cheer yourself up, you should try cheering someone else up. Age 14 I've learned that although it's hard to admit it, I'm secretly glad my parents are strict with me. Age 17 I've learned that silent company is often more healing than words of advice. Age 24 I've learned that wherever I go, the world's worst drivers have followed me there. Age 30 I've learned that if you want to do something positive for your children, work to improve your marriage. Age 33 I've learned that if someone says something unkind about me, I must live so that no one will believe it. Age 36 I've learned that there are people who love you dearly but just don't know how to show it. Age 39 I've learned that you can make someone's day by simply sending them a little note. Age 42 I've learned that the greater a person's sense of guilt, the greater his or her need to cast blame on others. Age 46 |
So for this week, let me close with the following. 1st) take a minute to read the rest of the "I've learned..." statements to the above right and below, then reflect on what you have learned over the years.
I've learned that children and grandparents are natural allies. Age 48
I've learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today,
life does go on and it will be better tomorrow. Age 52
I've learned that singing "Amazing Grace" can lift my spirits for hours. Age 55
I've learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents,
you miss them terribly after they die. Age 57
I've learned that making a living is not the same thing as making a life. Age 60
I've learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance. Age 62
I've learned that whenever I decide something with kindness,
I usually make the right decision. Age 66
I've learned that everyone can use a prayer. Age 72
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one. Age 83
I've learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love that human touch, holding hands, a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back. Age 87
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn. Age 90
2nd) Your knowledge is of benefit - is there someone that you can share it with?
We hope you will stay with us as our Journey Forward continues and as we pursue those "giving-back" opportunities where ever they may unfold.