So, if you agree to the above – what should we do?
Well, I would recommend the following and it all is wrapped around the question:
"To be a (2BA) good man or a good woman - what does it take?"
First, we need to look at what have we learned and decide if we can come up with a framework to move forward with? [I came up with the following and I wonder if you would agree?] Husbands and Wives need to talk, to determine what they are seeing unfold around them and to determine, how best to talk with and to teach their kids. I would hope that all parents of today, would learn from us who 'have been there & done that' so that they can leverage wisdom and better prepare the next generation – their kids – as best they can. |
For the transition years – their kids in ages 10 through 13 . . . as a time for building a foundation – and it is then that I would have these 7 Talks.
Now, what those talks should be about - please ponder that and jot down your thoughts on this. I'll then use the weeks ahead to share what I think those should be but I ask this. What I will share is one perspective. You may have a different view and that is okay.
Third, my hope is that this series triggers various comments and then each Dad comes up with their own plan and questions for what makes sense to them for their kids. Thanks for joining in on this! My prayers and best wishes to all.