One reason is a shift in our culture, where 'me' is now embraced and not the 'we' that use to be desired. Another is the misunderstanding that is now prevalent . . . for the mob mentality is now demanding respect but it is a veiled compliance demand that is based more on emotions and not validity. So then, what can be done, where & how? That's a two part challenge. The first is upon yourself, to make sure you've embraced respect (others can see it in you). The second is on behalf of your kids and grandkids . . . for you are a teacher & role-model. Because, if we don't help them to learn what respect is and why it is important, others will influence them in negative ways and they may never learn this. It all comes down to you. Is respect worth pursuing, showing, teaching? |
"Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” Philippians 2:3
P.S. Bonus consideration [what if everyone embraced]
I was raised to show respect.
I was taught to open a door for others, to say hello when I enter a room, and to always say please and thank you. I have respect for my elders, to love others for who they are, and not for what I can get from them. I was also raised to treat people exactly as how I would like to be treated by others.
It's simple, respect in all things.