#1, am I appreciated ? (we don't have to ask this of others, we can see it by their words and actions). #2, am I respected, do others appreciate what I say ? #3, am I desired . . . . as in do others seek me for my involvement, my help, my leadership ? If not, are there things to review, to change or to pursue ?
And don't forget these words from Proverbs 22:1
“A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.”
What say you ?