#1, do I love my spouse ? #2, do I respect our vows ? #3, would my spouse answer the same as I to these questions ?
Don't be derailed - fight the good fight and don't forget these words . . . “Husbands honor your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God's gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered.” 1 Peter 3:7