#1, do I see that my pursuit of alcohol, drugs or other things, is not healthy for me or is impacting me in some negative way ?
#2, do I see that my pursuits are impacting others negatively ?
#3, if you see that you have some actions that do need to be addressed . . . then what, how and when will you take action?
It all boils down to having personal discipline – do you have it ?
And remember 2 Timothy 1:7 ... “For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.”